On Individuality and Illness

We respect individuality, but we do not disregard illness. When my son and I lock gazes, looking deeply into each other's eyes, I lovingly tell him he's perfect. But I know from a recent dental exam that he has cavities, and I am not going to neglect the pain and adverse health consequences that these can give him if left untreated. We know through objective laboratory and other diagnostic testing that children with a label of autism have things going on in their bodies -- analogous to cavities and which we would treat for any child, neurotypical or labeled with autism.

What are those things going on in the bodies of children with autism? They include metabolic, gastrointestinal, and immunological issues; oxidative stress and toxicity; and issues with the endocrine and central nervous systems. Let's look at cancer patients: we know that they also share some similar issues. Do we respect the individuality of our loved one with cancer? Certainly. Do we disregard their illness? Certainly not.

Parents of children with cavities seek a good dentist and remediation in the form of a filling. Parents of children with cancer seek answers for recovery. And parents of children with autism responsibly do the same. We all love our kids.

This holiday season, I wish you the joy of the sparkles in your children's eyes, and I wish you and your families answers, hope, and healing.

Warmly,
Teri Arranga
Director
Autism One